Internet pornography can become as big of an addiction as cocaine or meth—amphetamine.
In fact, most cocaine or meth-amphetamine addicts use these drugs to enhance their masturbation.
Meth addicts will often watch internet porn and masturbate for up to 24 hours straight—or longer!
Internet porn can trigger all the same dopamine responses that hard drugs can.
So even if you are not using drugs like cocaine or meth, you can still be a stone-cold addict to internet porn.
Internet porn is more addictive than video games, food, and even sex.
So many men struggle with this addiction because when they quit, the urge to use internet porn gets STRONGER BY THE DAY for at least 7 days.
So many young men will quit the habit and last for up to 7 days, but finally give in by the 7th day.
This is because the urge to use (and get your dopamine hit) increases each day for the first 7 days.
This urge to increase your dopamine will be strong for a full 6 months before it calms down, but it will never calm down completely.
Therefore, it is very important to educate yourself on why and how internet porn is so addictive, so that you have the knowledge to not act on the urge when it arises.
Here’s the number one thing you need to know… Porn actually changes your brain.
The below information is detailed.
Here is the short version:
Internet porn addiction gives you a hit of dopamine, overtime this results in changes in the brain. You become desensitized and require more “hardcore” porn and nothing in your life besides porn gives you pleasure. Your frontal lobe shrinks, you lose grey matter, and when you want to quit, you are pulled back in because you experience withdrawal symptoms.
The only way to successfully quit is to follow Brahmacharya. If you want to skip to the long version, you may move ahead to the next chapter.
Here is the long version:
Our brains are full of pathways.
Every time we learn something new, a new pathway is created.
The more you practice a new skill, the stronger the associated pathway becomes in your brain.
Porn addiction rewires the brain by creating a new neural pathway.
Dopamine serves to remind us of the things that are most pleasurable in our lives.
Anything that triggers dopamine is something that will strengthen your neural pathway.
Porn addiction enhances dopamine, and the ultimate reward or feelings of pleasure arise because of the release of chemicals known as opioids.
For instance, an opioid release occurs when we orgasm or once we’ve eaten a great meal.
Essentially, opioids make us feel satisfied to prevent our seeking and craving.
However, our dopamine system is stronger than our opioid system. This means that we seek more than we are satisfied.
Therefore, we “have room” for a sugar/fat dessert like ice cream even after we are full after eating our main meal.
Reward circuits encourage us to engage in novelty.
This explains why porn addicts don’t watch a video to completion, they watch only portions of video after video looking for the next high.
Arousal is only skyrocketed exactly when new pornographic material is introduced.
Watching Internet pornography can cause you to experience shock, surprise, and anxiety.
This causes the release of ‘stress’ neurotransmitters and hormones such as norepinephrine, epinephrine, and cortisol.
These hormones increase excitement and amplify the effects of dopamine.
Porn addicts are known to escalate their porn use to ‘forbidden’ or ‘shame-inducing’ genres in order to boost declining dopamine levels.
With time, a porn addict’s brain may mistake anxiety with sexual arousal.
This may explain why porn users escalate to ever more shocking or anxiety, evoking genres of pornography.
This escalation is known as ‘sensitization’ aka addiction.
Sensitization and sexual conditioning re-wire the brain’s reward center nerve cells to want and crave certain behaviors.
This creates a physical pathway that can blast our reward center in the future. This pathway creates powerful and hard-to-ignore cravings.
Sensitization is a unique and powerful ‘Pavlovian’ conditioning that alters the physical and chemical nature of your reward structure.
Instead of salivating at the sound of a bell like Pavlov’s dogs, your reward circuits are stimulated when you turn on a computer monitor or when you see a sidebar banner of a semi-naked woman on a non-pornographic website.
Sensitization begins with high levels of dopamine.
Dopamine’s goal is to have us remember and repeat behaviors that further our genetic survival.
Dopamine achieves this by triggering a protein known as DeltaFosB.
DeltaFosB remains in the brain for around eight weeks following your last ‘binge.’
DeltaFosB that causes sensitization, and it does this by creating stronger and more powerful nerve connections in the brain.
Long after an addict has quit ‘using’ and DeltaFosB levels have returned to normal, these sensitized pathways remain.
This explains why alcoholics who have been sober for many years may still suffer from strong cravings when they walk into a pub.
When nerve cells experience pleasure, nerve cells carry that message to the reward center by joining together.
Over time, this pathway that carries this message becomes fixed. Forming new brain pathways is known as neuroplasticity.
Overtime, old brain pathways weaken. This is known as forgetting or breaking a bad habit.
Creating or weakening brain pathways is often known as ‘rewiring’ the brain.
Thus, neuroplasticity allows the brain to adapt because of experience.
When we watch porn, we cause neuroplasticity in the brain.
This is why addicts of porn or drugs continue to want to engage in this behavior, even though they do not wish to do so.
Porn also makes you become desensitized.
Desensitization involves low dopamine signaling for everyday activities and causes tolerance to internet pornography.
This causes the Internet addict to engage in dopamine releasing activities, e.g. watching more Internet pornography.
The addict will require a higher dose of internet pornography in order to achieve the required dopamine release and associated opioid release.
Tolerance may also mean you are forced to escalate to new and more shocking genres of porn in order to experience the desired ‘buzz.’
Desensitization causes a decline in the amount of dopamine available for transferring messages from one nerve cell to the next.
Overtime, over-exposure to Internet porn may cause permanent structural change, such as a decline in the number of nerve connectors or synapses and loss of grey matter.
Loss of grey matter translates into fewer nerve cell connections, less dopamine connections, less dopamine, and a corresponding need for greater stimulation to fill this void in dopamine loss.
The size of the frontal lobe shrinks, weakening your ability to say ‘no.’
When you attempt to withdraw from watching Internet porn, a stress response is activated via your brain’s stress systems.
This stress response causes withdrawal symptoms and relapse. A dopamine reboot is the only cure.
If you suffer from a porn addiction, you will need to stop using porn to literally ‘rewire’ your pathways, so you exhibit a preference to real-life people.
This is known as ‘rebooting’.
The goal of a reboot is to seek your pleasure from real people rather than from digital representations of people.
Over time, this means sensitized porn pathways will be weak, and desensitization will fade away.
‘Real person’ pathways will overtake unhealthy porn pathways.
You will receive your dopamine hits from real-life interactions instead of unhealthy Internet porn.
When you initially quit using Internet porn, the sensitized pathways will temporarily grow stronger and more sensitive to addiction cues and triggers.
These connections continue to strengthen for around seven days following your decision to quit Internet porn and begin to fade within around four weeks into your abstinence.