Hello My friendly friends,
This article is very important for you if you are not married yet or going to get married in future or even if you are married, there is something in this article you can learn from.
Read this article with your 100% attention, If you are going to get married, do it the smart way I am advising, because I have seen many videos/articles stating you do not need lifelong Celibacy, friends I want to tell you the truth, there is no short cut to greatness and long life except Brahmacharya (Semen Retention), If you also think You don’t need lifelong Celibacy then you are not following the path of the ultimate, my advice is “dont listen to that bullshit”.
You should find a way where you can have best from both the worlds and if you want to be stay celibate while getting married or after getting married, the most important things for you to pick the right wife, since many relationships are destroyed due to not having frequent sex in the relationship, so you want to pick the good wife not a sex craving lady, You want to pick the sweet shy good woman, who will help you in your brahmacharya(Semen Retention) journey.
Friends, the primary reason or the only reason for getting married is to start a family, why?
Because you would not exist in this world if your ancestors never have children, so going back tens of thousands of years if your people didn’t have children you wouldn’t be here, so you owe it to your ancestor to continue your line forward, if you don’t continue line forward, your line dies, this line was kept alive for tens of thousands of years, your line dies just because of your selfish decision to not have children, so you owe it if not to yourself, you owe it to your ancestors, you owe it to your people to have children, now its very very short sighted to say , well, you know in this day and age its not good to have children and bla bla bla, listen, ages come and go but if you kill your line that’s dead forever, if you keep your line alive, your line can stay alive forever, its very very short sighted to say , well, its not good time to have children, it is irrelevant to say so because there will be a future, you have no idea what is gonna happen in the future, its very very dumb and selfish to kill you line, just because society, governments, courts and other people say its not great time to have children, if you don’t want to have children because of your selfishness, you are spitting on the face of your people and your ancestors, I will tell you a little secret, “Your ancestors live in you, and you already lived in your ancestors”.
Ok coming back to picking the right wife, guys I have already made few videos on my youtube channel(Pranaman) picking the right wife, where I explained, Why She has to come from an intact family with original mother and father, Why She cannot believe in divorce or even imagine getting a divorce, Why She must have the natural body type you prefer, Why She must be image conscious, Why She must be family oriented and not career oriented, Why She must have no problem signing a pre-nuptial agreement and Why She should be a smiler etc. if you haven’t watch them, I know you will love it, check out the following links.
You’ve got to pick the right wife like a businessman picks a company to invest in. It shouldn’t be left to chance such as love – you’ve got to be pro-active, know what you want and then go after it.
Marriage isn’t about love or connecting with your soul-mate. Those are inventions of TV and Hollywood.
Marriage is a contract and you’ve got to try your hardest to make sure that contract is reinforced. You cannot make the best decision when you’re emotionally love-sick like a 16 year old school girl. No businessman who wants to stay in business will sign a contract in an emotional state of mind and no man who wants to stay married will sign all of his power away just because he loves her. It takes rational, clear-headed planning and thinking to pick the right wife material.
When you get married you sign all your power over to your wife – it must be of some benefit for you to do so. That benefit is to grow old with your family. There are few important things I am gonna share here so you must engrave these things in your heart.
#1. Be honest about what you want:
Most men don’t want an independent, empowered woman. That’s code for bitchy slut with a chip on her shoulder. We all want a sweet, nice, joyful, feminine woman who treats her man like a King, Bullshitters will suck up to the dregs and say the opposite in a futile attempt to get some action. These poor suckers get shit on the most and never understand why. Hear this gentlemen – women love men who go after what they want, who don’t take a woman’s BS seriously, and treat her like a woman, not like a man in drag.
There is no denying that marriage is a very, very bad deal. When you get married you immediately give your wife all the power over your money and your children. No- fault divorce really means his-fault divorce. If your wife is to decide she wants a divorce she can have all the benefits of being married and none of the drawbacks.
Divorce is theft from the man. It’s a redistribution of wealth from men to women. She can live off of your paycheck via alimony and child support and she can keep your children and raise them in a single-mother or step-daddy household. She has the complete and full support of daddy Government behind her. In the eyes of the law she can do no wrong and you can do no right. And there is nothing you can do about any of that. That’s why you have to choose the right wife in the first place to eliminate much of that risk.
Steps should be taken to minimize the chances of divorce. You must take extra special precaution to choosing the right wife so you can avoid the possibility of a financially devastating and family ruining divorce.
#3. When to get married?.
The best time for a man to get married is after 30 years of age. At that age he has had a long time to live life, earn money, think of what he wants in a wife, and settle down a little bit. The ages of 20-30 are the wild years but after the 30 year mark men will tend to settle down. Most men under 30 years of age aren’t mature enough to make the best decision about who to spend their life with.
Now remember, 30 years old is the starting age to think of marriage. That doesn’t mean you should get married at 30 or by 30. Anytime between 30-35 is a good time to tie the knot. Between the ages of 30-35 is when a man’s marriage value is at its highest.
We have spoken about the need for a good woman here. we will now look at how to determine good women from bad women.
#4. She should be young:
The woman should 26-27 years of age MAXIMUM. 25 is even better and 20 is the best age.
A woman’s body does not age well. You want the most amount of years with your wife having a tight, young, firm body. After 30 it goes downhill fast. At around the age of 31 a woman’s beauty really declines fast.
It’s a tradeoff, she gives you her good years and you put up with her in her bad years. Never take a woman already in her bad years, I repeat Never take a woman already in her bad years.
Women do not age well. Cougars, older women that younger men find irresistible, are an invention of the movies. Single women over the age of 30 have wasted all their pretty years having a lot of random sex and now they want to find a sucker who will take care of them without having to give him any of her good years. Don’t be that sucker.
A young body is especially important for bearing children. Old women cannot have and don’t have healthy children. At 30 years of age a woman is already 15 years past her child-bearing prime.
The difference is that the 30 year old dumb woman is a lot more bitter and has a whole lot less to offer.
Here is best formula to decide what should be your woman’s age to get married by Amerix:
– Divide your age by 2.
– Add 7 or 8 or 9 or 10 (7,8,9,10)
– That should be her age.
Y = X ÷ 2 + (7/8/9/10)
X is your age.
Y is her age.
Be patient. Don’t rush.
#5. She must be a good girl:
She cannot be a drinker or a smoker or have any tattoos. She cannot have a party girl past, a sordid past, and she cannot have gone out more than a couple times drinking. You cannot turn a whore into a housewife. The more sexual partners she has had the more likely the marriage will end in divorce.
“Are you saying all party girls, smokers and drinkers are sluts?”
The fewer sexual partners your wife has had, the better. The ideal wife should be a virgin.
Remember: The more sexual partners she has had the more likely you are to be divorced in about 6 years and lose most of your money, possessions, and your children.
If you think she needs help or that you are helping her and she is changing then you are being foolish and you are being played. It’s going to end badly for you when you get hitched to a woman like this.
Always pick a good girl. That means a virgin (or close), family oriented, pleasant, eager to help, a smiler, and patient.
#6. She should change herself for you:
When a woman is in love she will change herself to please and conform to you. Her new favorite food will become meat and eggs, she will enjoy watching all six Rocky movies with you, and she will do things to please you she has never done or liked before.
#7. She must look up to you and respect you:
Women marry up and men marry down, since the dawn of marriage. marry with the woman who is at-least 4-5 years younger than you, If she looks down on you she will leave with your money and your children. You’ve got to be a man that she can look up to, admire, love and respect – always.
#8. She should not have any children from a previous affair:
In the animal kingdom when a lion takes over a pride he kills the cubs of other lions. Raising someone else’s child is cuckoldry with your full knowledge and consent.
If you raise someone else’s child you will be taking care of another man’s seedling and there will always be another man in the picture.
Be selfish and keep your wife and children to yourself. They should be yours and only yours. Don’t settle for another man’s leavings and sloppy seconds.
Here is what women with children do: They have unprotected sex with a stud, get knocked up, and look for a sucker to raise the bastard.
Or… She has already been married, had children, and then divorced the father and left. In each case the woman is unfit for marriage.
Things to remember: Modern women mostly western women(now everywhere) have been indoctrinated since birth to believe in and embrace divorce or live independently. They have been indoctrinated and instructed to believe that their feminine instincts are wrong and bad. This causes a great deal of confusion in their minds and, to put it plainly, many of them are unfit for marriage and raising a family. Especially avoid women who use psychiatric drugs and especially avoid women who go to therapy. Therapy only makes women more insane and teaches them to blame men more for their problems.
Party girls are for fun. Good girls are for marriage. If a woman cannot or will not cook daily, how will she ever care for children? She can’t. To raise non-fat children you must marry a woman who can and will cook.
As a man your options do not dwindle as you age. Your options only increase with your age and wealth. Conversely, as a woman ages her options plummet. That’s because men age gracefully, like a fine wine, and women age like milk. That’s why you must pick a beautiful young lady. It is highly advisable for a man to wait until he is a little older to get married. 30 years of age is an acceptable starting age for a man to start thinking of marriage.
Never, ever take advice from a woman on how to be attractive to women. Be nice, be yourself, be courteous, buy her gifts only works to put you in the friend zone and rightfully so because it’s pathetic behavior.
You should avoid women who have a lazy, entitled, “me-first” attitude. Don’t let your wife have complete and utter control of the home decor. You don’t want to live in emasculation- station with throw pillows and doilies and dolls and flowers everywhere.
Men are not women and women are not men. Things that women should do do not apply to men and vice versa. Double standards exist. That’s life. You are the leader. She is the follower.
When she loves and respects you, she will enjoy all things about you. She will not demand and nag you into changing. If you smoke a big fat cigar and your clothes smell like an ashtray she will enjoy the smell. She should want to sleep in one of your shirts because it has your smell. That’s the power you should have over your wife for her to be happy and content.
If she’s a nagger before marriage then that is a sign you need to give her her walking papers. Nothing is going to get better with marriage, it will only amplify.
Marriage should be old school traditional for it to work. Pick a non-traditional woman and have some baloney non-traditional marriage and you can expect non-traditional results: Alimony payments, child support payments and seeing your children every other weekend.
Never get married just because. Have a purpose and a reason for the things you do. Getting married is a dangerous proposition – make sure you know how to swim before you dive in head-first.
Dealing with the one who got away: There are over 3 billion women in the world. The 21 median age for women the entire world over is 28 years old. There are millions of women who are possible marriage material. She isn’t the one or your soul-mate or other baloney. There are millions just like her. And if she was your soul-mate you’d still be together. Let her go and move on. There are plenty more where she came from.
Personal recommendation from PRANA to find a suitable wife:
Picking a woman from your own country and culture is always the best solution. Unfortunately, there is wholesale, systematic destruction of marriage and family in many 1st world countries, especially America and England, which has narrowed the options tremendously. One may have a broader selection if he were to go abroad to another country where marriage and family are still valued. But, and this is a big but, think long and hard before you marry a woman of another race and father half-breed children. mix race children are always confused and probably they won’t look like you, that will definitely upset you.
Remember, it is best to marry a woman of your culture and race. If that option is unappealing for the reasons described above there is a whole big wide world for you to choose from.
Conclusion: Growing old alone and with no children to carry on your name seems a worse prospect than following this checklist and picking the best wife you can.
Civilization exists because of the nuclear family. Certainly marriage has been tainted in the last 50 years, to the detriment of all, but if you make smart decisions you can cut down your risk tremendously.
If you are going to get married, do it the smart way. If you aren’t going to get married go ahead and have a beer. Cheers.
Friends this article is inspired from the writings of Victor Pride from BoldandDetermined.com(Now closed), I have added few important points to this article but this article was originally written by Victor Pride, I would like to thank him and give him full credit for this article.
Thank you, Till next time have a great day.